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I frequently hear women express concerns about their husbands not communicating affection or what they think and feel about many topics – especially about them, personally, and their marriage. The husband usually responds with comments like, “You know I’m not a talker” or “I can’t communicate as well as you can.”
Although most men do have the ability to effectively communicate with their wives they often don’t, and there are many different reasons that we won’t go into now.
Before we go farther, let me clarify that there are some couples in which it’s the wife who has the greater challenge with communication, but since the majority of “non-talkers” are men we will assume this in order to keep it simple. If you are/have a quiet wife, feel free to apply the information as it suits your situation.
When I’m working with couples who are frustrated about one-sided communication I often recommend a specific tool...